What is the psychology of those who often say solitary words?Ask the psychological counselor

What kind of person is easy to speak alone?

　Some people think "I'm in the workplace" or "maybe I", for those who have a lot of "solitary words", such as "I see", "This is this ...", "Ah, I made a mistake!"Isn't it?Regarding people who have a lot of solo words, there are cases where people around me feel that there are colleagues who are not aware or always speaking loudly, "I'm wondering if I should react", and "it may be too noisy".There are many questions, such as "Why do you say yourself?"[Image] "People who may be able to speak alone" is such a person!What is the psychology of a person who speaks alone?I asked a psychological counselor, Kohin Maiko.

Impact of "temperament", "growth history" and "environment"

Q.Why do you speak alone?What kind of psychological state is "there is a lot of solo words"?Kohinata: "Some factors are considered, and I think that it is possible to consider the approximate psychological consideration depending on what kind of words you speak. For example," here ... "" Oh, I made a mistake! "In order to organize and organize, if you are a violent solitary language such as "Stupid" or "Die", or a single word with violence, you may be stressed. Also, "Why is this?If you are next to you, such as "It's a bad thing, a serious thing happened", "What happened?"It is considered that the solitary words, such as answering "now" and saying "◯◯!" And putting in a variety show on TV, will come out of loneliness.If you are talking or talking, there is a possibility of some kind of illness. "Q.Do you often say that you are often aware that you are a single word?Or are there many cases where you are not aware?Mr. Kohinata: I feel that there are many people who are aware of it. However, there are various timing to realize that, and immediately after saying, some people realize that "I have just talked to me now", and return home from work.Some people realize that there were many words today. However, it seems that the reasons for realizing one of the personality that "I am a type of solitary word" is often pointed out by others.Therefore, even if you point out that you often say that you are often solved, if you are hard to deny, you will be more likely to be a disease, that is, for the person himself. ".Are there any features found in people who can easily speak alone?Kinata: "I think that the person's temperament + growing history + placed an environment is large, not age or gender.) I think that people who are in the environment, those who are lonely without speech, people who are not good at quiet space, people who are stressed by moving their bodies, including speaking voices.In other words, even those who do not speak at all at present may be able to say if the environment and situation change. "Q..Specifically, what is an environment that makes it easier to speak (increase)?It seems that some people say, "I've been living alone since I started living alone."Kohinata: "People who feel that they have increased their solo spaces since they started living alone are those who are not good at quiet space. For example, when they study or work, they are" crowded places such as coffee shops and family restaurants. "If you think about which one to take, such as a hotel, etc., you can see the compatibility between yourself and the "silence".Life is often surrounded by sounds, such as music and videos. You may always be listening to the sounds with earphones while you are on the move, and you will play music as soon as you return home.Both solitary and humming are "sounds". In other words, it is appropriate to think that people who are not good at silence have begun living alone because they have started living alone when living alone.I think "Q.If there are people who often say self -speaking, some people seem to be wondering if it is better to react, but how do you think it would be desirable to treat.。Kohinata: "It depends on what kind of self -mentioned words. As mentioned earlier, there is no need for reaction if it is a word for concentration and thinking, and in the case of" I want you to take care ", I am that person.I think it is good to judge whether or not you want to be prepared for it. Or it is a premise that it is a relationship that can be said, but if the solitary word is unpleasant, you may want to refrain from yourself.It would be ants. However, as mentioned earlier, you should not leave if you are suspected of the disease. Let's consult with the company's mental health consultation window and specialized medical institutions. ".Is there a way to "want to fix it" or "reduce" because of the awareness of being self -spoken or not being aware of the people around you?Kinata "I don't say" I'm going to say myself now! ", So it's hard to fix it even if it is pointed out.There is an obsession, and there is a risk that there will be more solo speech. Solo is not a problem itself, it is a problem that the person who is listening becomes uncomfortable and the relationship is worse, so I said, "I am self -described.I have a habit of saying, so you can ignore it, and if it's noisy, don't hesitate to point out. "It will be. Also, you may want to try out the actions that make it difficult to speak physically, such as "Eat gum" and "lick a candy". "

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